Rediscovering Love’s Essence:

For starters, let me start with the fact that I miss the way you treated me when we first started talking. Due to the fact that, in the beginning It thrilled my heart to know that I had found someone as wonderful as you when I gazed into your eyes and saw a reflection of a love that was so pure and sincere. Nowadays, I do occasionally comprehend that intense suffering, rather than the presence of butterflies, signals that I’m in love. In addition, I understood that I wasn’t the girl of your love but rather just a female who happened to enter your life. I have no idea what it’s like to not have strong feelings. Even when I feel nothing, I feel it completely.

Love, at its inception, can feel like a whirlwind of excitement, where we see a reflection of our deepest desires in our partner’s eyes. We cherish the purity and sincerity of newfound affection, basking in the presence of butterflies. As the relationship matures, however, love manifests in ways that challenge and evolve us, often accompanied by intense suffering. This enduring love serves as a compass, guiding us through life’s unpredictable landscapes.

And also, it hit me really hard when I read this quote

“I think we all just want someone who can see the beauty we can’t see in ourselves.

Maxwell Diawuoh

Not someone that romanticises the mess and calls it beautiful, but someone that walks boldly into our brokenness, sees us spread-eagle in the middle of the wreckage, and says that we’re worth salvaging.”

Embracing Vulnerability:

Love unveils our vulnerabilities, exposing our brokenness and imperfections. We long for someone who can see the beauty in us that we might not recognize ourselves. Maxwell Diawuoh’s words resonate deeply, emphasizing the need for a partner who bravely steps into our shattered world and recognizes our worth. This recognition becomes a beacon of hope, illuminating the path to healing and self-acceptance.

Navigating Emotional Turmoil:

Every relationship faces storms and challenges, testing the strength of the bond between two hearts. The recent instability experienced by the couple in this story highlights the significance of resilience and perseverance. Weathering the storms together deepens the connection, leading to a profound understanding of each other’s emotions and fostering personal growth.

Choosing Devotion Over All Else:

I used to think of you in this way, and now I want you to be the one who can notice and recognise the good things in me that I might not be able to recognise or admit on my own. I am aware of the recent instability and emotional turmoil we have experienced, despite everything, I would choose you over anyone else. That’s it; you are my glory.

This choice represents the commitment to building a lasting relationship, choosing to love and support one another unconditionally. Thus emphasizing the power of my decision to strengthens the foundation of love.

Conclusion:

Love’s journey is an ever-changing landscape, marked by emotional upheavals, self-discovery, and unwavering devotion. From the initial excitement to enduring the challenges and choosing to love fiercely, this tale encapsulates the essence of true love. In embracing vulnerability and recognizing each other’s beauty amid brokenness, this couple finds a love that is profound and enduring. May this story serve as a reminder that love’s beauty lies not in the absence of struggle, but in the courage to salvage and cherish it amidst the wreckage.